My sex is defined but don’t enforce your gender roles on me!
Alas the people in this world are so drained. Every creature of God Almighty is scheduled for a functional task but you know what …. Only humans are free. Yet humans are lost in this abyss. Let me share the reason, a human is not a human anymore, it is just a humanoid now. We are the ones who cage our potentials and of others as well, then ponder and complain when we are worn out!
What are we doing to make our lives better, have we ever thought about this? I and YOU are the definers of our destiny. We are born with no limits, no cages, but we confine ourselves through gender disparity and misapprehension of gender roles.
It is bizarre that we are both the perpetrators and sufferers. Am I capable of guiding a man or as a man are you capable of guiding a woman? The reality is that it’s just like a blind judging a blind. We build stereotypes and then criticize. The true concept of gender is beyond this.
Apparently, I am a woman, so I cannot drive safe, Oh really? You are a man, so you must not wear pink, Oh really?
I am a woman, so I must be acquainted with cooking. You are a man, so you cannot shed tears. This is how we get tired and exhausted. Our mind is relatively busy in articulating and internalizing the gender stereotypes. Now get yourself a decent hobby after reading this.
The world is in need of you….the nonjudgmental you. Step ahead and break the stereotype that comes your way! I know how it hits hard….but I refuse to be just a peg in a well oiled machine…..you should too.